When neurodivergence meets Internal Family Systems (IFS),
healing happens.

Do you ever get the sense that you’re having a very different experience‍ moving through the world than people around you?

A young person with curly hair styled in a bun, sitting on the sidewalk near a parking lot, wearing a red patterned shirt and dark pants, looking at the camera with a serious expression. They feel everything. They mask like a pro.

Feels everything.
Masks like a pro.

A young woman with dark brown hair tied back, smiling in an outdoor setting with blurred greenery. She wonders when everyone else got the "Social Rule Book" and why didn't she?

Wonders when everyone else got the Social Rulebook… and why didn’t she?

A woman with short curly hair wearing a rust-colored turtleneck sweater standing near a window with greenery outside. Getting her PhD was no problem, so how can it be so hard to remember her kids' teacher conferences?!

Getting her PhD was no problem. So how can it be so hard to remember her kids’ teacher conferences?!

A middle-aged man with dark hair, a beard, and a mustache, smiling and standing with arms crossed in front of a large window in a modern building. He's not a big fan of extended eye-contact. It feels so... exposed.

Not a fan of extended eye contact (Feels so…exposed)

Young woman wearing a plaid jacket and jeans, sitting cross-legged on an empty path outdoors, contemplating; she never quite fit in anywhere; was it her mixed-race culture, nerdy passions, being queer?

 Never quite fit in anywhere. Was it her mixed-race culture, nerdy passions, being queer?

Neurodiversity welcome here — Learn more

I use Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy to work with people who have neurodivergent systems (think ADHD, Autism, and other differences in perception and brain “wiring”). IFS helps us tap into the unique strengths of your neurodivergence to heal trauma and nurture your system.

Bringing it together

A woman with black hair and glasses sitting on a blue sofa, smiling, wearing a colorful striped sweater, denim overalls, and yellow socks. The more she knows about her neurobiology, the more she can work with it rather that fighting it.

A collage of sixteen images of a young man in black shirt against a green background, showing various facial expressions including happiness, sadness, anger, surprise, and confusion. These Parts are all mean well, even when it doesn't seem that way.

A woman with glasses wearing a white shirt with small dots and a green cardigan, relaxing with her arms behind her head on a grey couch. Her calm and ease suggest that she's feeling connected and attuned to herself.

Settling in to Self

Where do we start?

Find your path.
Blaze your trail.

Close-up of a tree trunk with a green trail marker painted on it in a forest with many trees and green leaves under a blue sky.
Close-up of a tree trunk with a green trail marker painted on it in a forest with many trees and green leaves under a blue sky.

I invite you to explore the landscape of your system:

  • Develop a deep understanding of your own nervous system: its needs, vulnerabilities, where it shines

  • Cultivate respect, appreciation, and care for your system

  • Know how to talk about your brain and nervous system to others (which may involve some code-switching), and advocate for yourself

  • Find your people if you haven’t already—the ones who see and love you as you are

  • Contemplate and name what is most important to you in your life, and what is not

And how are we going to do all that? Well, we’ve got a map…

This is where IFS comes in

Where to next?

Neurodivergence

• What is neurodivergence?
(Is it just ADHD and Autism?)

• How does it feel from the inside?

• How does it look from the outside?

• How can I tell if I’m neurodivergent?


Find out more

IFS Therapy

(Internal Family Systems)

Simple concept, profound effects

“A part of me wants to cook a really healthy dinner tonight, but a part of me is craving pizza.” It’s not a foreign concept for us to acknowledge that different parts of us feel different ways. Find out moreabout how getting to know our parts— really know them— allows us to develop a sense of internal trust, so that the tug-of-war becomes collaboration

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Where we’ll meet

IN PERSON
Valley Cottage, NY

TELEHEALTH
NY & NJ